Woman....

Have been thinking of starting again for long but could gather the will to hold the quill just this time….

So Back at writing after 6 long years….have only written for survival in these 6 yrs (to pass my exam papers J) .It dint took me long to figure out the title of this blogpost…coz the will to write came from Impressions only.

Without blabbering more on this “impressions” I would rather shoot the post directly…

To B frank I have been very much impressed by a few people around me and just thought of telling others about their courage ; their patience ; their selflessness…I mean looking at those people I really wonder at my own life..And think “God; I have so much to learn”
The thought that People can still be so great and humble at the same time; fills me with immense thirst for knowing their heart..How can they manage to be so great!!

Recently I got to know of a woman who is a manager; she has a year old daughter; got married love…managing her work and household…put in some family complications ;she is bearing the cost of her brother-in-laws kids’ education; her own household ; her own kid and her own demands… …yet she is so down to earth…sensitive and caring …she epitomizes what a woman should be…
Managing a baby with your work is altogether so demanding …..plus it becomes all the way more tough if you have to manage the finances on your own…

This particular instance makes me think about my own life…about the responsibilities which I will be supposed to shoulder as a woman…

I am in mood of venting out all what I have in my mind today only…
I know of a couple of women whose mothers- in- law…those shashi kala…bindu types…or the class of those as shown in “K” serials…they are endearing their married life with so much patience and care…working…earning…and still not happy but still caring and loving…

For the sake of what??.............For the love which drew them to marriage…or the love for their kids…responsibility towards their own parents…whom they can’t tell that they are unhappy…and that their decisions were wrong…
Fully realizing that they will be in this grind forever…their in laws are not good and not keeping well ..still they care for them..fend them like their kids…

Two days back…she told me she had won herself a travel stay at some holiday resort…she plans to take her mother-in-law with them…MIL is suffering; she is bed ridden…Can’t Do her daily chores on her own…Has got such a caring and sweet daughter-in-law….yet she is always nagging ; complaining and suspicious…and still the daughter-in-law is willing to take her to the resort..to care for her..to love her…Where on earth do these women get so big loving hearts…

Hold on…I am not against MILs as such….but just look at the greatness of a woman’s heart…
This is why a woman is a woman…hats OFF to women like them..
It’s so tough to be caring and selfless…so patient and sensitive… adjusting and yet be firm in achieving what you want…Be empathetic…
It’s so easy to be selfish and mean…be demanding and stubborn…But this is not what a woman is for…